Wednesday's WhatNexter Of The Week - PackerBacker

by GregP_WN

PackbackThis weeks Wednesday's WhatNexter of the Week is PackerBacker  who has fought Lung Cancer, Head & Neck Cancer and Adult Sarcoma. Currently After being told it was tongue cancer, then that the primary was lung cancer, now they tell her she has sarcoma, a malignant peripheral nerve sheath tumor, more specifically. We asked for a little information about her journey with cancer and here is her story. We are glad to have her with us at WhatNext, drop by her profile page and drop a note of encouragement as she continues to fight the fight. Click HERE to see her profile.

In around June of 2011, my life changed forever. What I thought was an earache from dental work turned out to be a cancerous tumor on my tongue. 7 weeks of daily radiation and weekly chemo left me feeling extremely fatigued and nauseous. After finding a new lesion in my lung, I had more chemo, which didn’t work. A PET scan 12/11/12 revealed 6 new lesions throughout my body. A biopsy of a lymph node will hopefully help them to find the chemo that will work. I have been given 2-3 years left to live.

I take medication to help me stay awake, to ease the nausea, and to relieve the pain. I hate taking all these medications and the fact that I need them. I know, however, that I could be doing much worse. These side effects are somewhat tolerable – I function fairly normally. I am grateful that I am tolerating treatment as well as I have. I know it could be so much worse.

I am a little afraid of dying because my faith is a struggle for me. I am trying to improve that area of my life. Family and friends are more important than ever, and I enjoy every moment I have with them. My husband is my rock and supports me through everything. We laugh together and cry together, but we all remain hopeful, that I will live way past the 2-3 years I have been given.

I felt alone, like no one understood what I have been going through. I found WhatNext on the internet and I have found that many people feel just like I do. I feel so fortunate to have found it because I’m not going through this journey alone anymore. I get a great deal of comfort from what people on the site have to say. I have questions that the people on the site answer, and I am able to share some of my experiences with others to hopefully ease their fears. That helps me to feel better about myself because I’m not as productive as I would like to be. If I can offer some comfort or words of wisdom, that makes my day. I’m so happy I found WhatNext!

Thanks to PackerBacker for sharing her story of perseverance. We wish her the best as she fights on. Leave a message of encouragement below, or drop by her page and tell her to keep the fight up. 

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