Hi Sunny! JUST WAIT! Your body, including your face, will change through the years--the important thing is to be here! As they say, old age is not for sissies! Wait until you get wrinkles and all of the other baggage that comes with old(er) age! And you're just 40? I would think you could go to a department store make up counter and ask for some help disguising/covering the moles to make you more comfortable...Meanwhile, you're right--you are HERE!
When I was still teaching, one day a young student (2nd grade) told me, "Oh Mrs. XXXXX! You have old lady hands!" I laughed and thought to myself, "And I have old lady thighs, and old lady butt..."