Unfortunately, no. The reason you have heard what seem to be conflicting stories is that there are so many variable in side effects to chemo drugs. The vary based on which drugs you are taking in what dosage, frequency, duration, and combination. Even 2 people on the exact same regimen can have completely different side effects based on differences in age, overall health, other sensitivities, conditions, etc.
The good news is that which side effects you have, how severe they are, when they start and stop, etc. are usually very consistent for a given individual. So whatever side effects you do experience after your first treatment are highly likely to be the same throughout each round of treatment.