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    One Year Ago Today Meant Many More to Come

    Asked by DJS on Wednesday, July 16, 2014

    One Year Ago Today Meant Many More to Come

    It's my birthday! Last year at this time I was getting dressed to go to my first chemo session. When I was getting hooked up my husband and I were discussing this (not even my worst b'day!), and the woman in the chair opposite mine chimed in that it was also her birthday. That kicked off one of the greatest friendships I've ever experienced. Bonnie didn't make it -- don't smoke, people -- so today I'm celebrating our friendship on our mutual personal holiday. I'll never blow out the candles on my cake without remembering her, and how much fun we decided to have at Camp Chemo. I wouldn't wish it on anyone, but for me cancer brought a lot of blessings, and my BFF Bonnie is at the top of that list.

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    • cam32505's Avatar
      cam32505

      So much more in common than when you were on the playground as a kid. I'm sorry you lost your best friend, but Happy Birthday to both of you!

      over 5 years ago
    • karenrae's Avatar
      karenrae

      Happy Birthday to the both of you! I'm sure she will be with you in spirit.

      over 5 years ago
    • GregP_WN's Avatar
      GregP_WN

      Happy Birthday and sorry for your loss of your friend. Isn't it something how we get extremely close to people that we have this in common with? Cancer makes us think a little deeper.

      over 5 years ago
    • Carool's Avatar
      Carool

      What a lovely tribute to your friend! Happy birthday to you! Best, Carool

      over 5 years ago
    • BuckeyeShelby's Avatar
      BuckeyeShelby

      Happy birthday!! I hope you have many, many more. And I'm sure your buddy is smiling at you from wherever she is.

      over 5 years ago
    • dawn-dawn's Avatar
      dawn-dawn

      HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
      Bonnie will always be with you especially as you celebrate more and more birthdays!

      over 5 years ago
    • UpandUp's Avatar
      UpandUp

      Happy Birthday and many more to come!

      over 5 years ago
    • HardyGirl's Avatar
      HardyGirl

      And many more to come!! Good news, I'm glad to hear it always!

      over 5 years ago
    • pillowpatch's Avatar
      pillowpatch

      Happy Birthday to both you and Bonnie!

      over 5 years ago
    • Ejourneys' Avatar
      Ejourneys

      Happy birthday to you and to Bonnie's spirit!

      over 5 years ago
    • flamingogirl's Avatar
      flamingogirl

      Happy Birthday!! I am sure Bonnie is celebrating with you!!

      over 5 years ago
    • sewfine's Avatar
      sewfine

      Happy Birthday to you. (and to Bonnie too) I wish you many, many, more.

      over 5 years ago
    • barryboomer's Avatar
      barryboomer

      Happy Birthday...I'm 69 (ugh ) today.
      That's my birthday present.

      over 5 years ago
    • marshala1's Avatar
      marshala1

      Happy Birthday and many mooooore!

      over 5 years ago
    • Schlegel's Avatar
      Schlegel

      Happy Birthday! I know what you mean. On my cancer journey I've made many friends with cancer and lost a few. And two months ago I lost my brother to lung cancer. He was a bigtime smoker.

      over 5 years ago

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