first 48-involved googling-wanted to learn all we could about the disease itself and life expectancy for stage 4 prostate
no real answers were found, left unsatisfied for over a year i think
i found what i was looking for in a site that gave me real people and their story through treatment and till death. with stage 4 you know it will happen, you just need a clearer understanding. the next thing that heped the most, was not treatments, that can be found anywhere, but as a wife of pca i wanted wife experiences with no soft shoeing, that i found elsewhere as well.
as women involved in these relationships we are alone, always trying to not to "go there", but we are still young and need support. other cancers usually have "that" available for support.