• wife gone bad

    Asked by maddmaxxx on Friday, December 5, 2014

    wife gone bad

    why she hates me

    4 Answers from the Community

    4 answers
    • cam32505's Avatar
      cam32505

      If your wife is sick physically or mentally, she can't help her feelings. I'm sure she doesn't hate you. It just reminds me of women in labor, who all seem to hate their husbands at that time. Get her the medical help she needs and she'll love you for it.

      almost 5 years ago
    • rwhdesmoines' Avatar
      rwhdesmoines

      Maddmax first I wanted to say that I am glad that you joined our site. I hope that you will get some good information and support for the challenges you face with your wife's depression. My husband went through depression a few years ago and it was hard for me to deal with. It helped me to have my own appointments to talk with a different counselor than my husband was seeing. My counselor suggested for me to be there for my husband and give him the help and encouragement he needed but also to not forget to do what is needed to take good care of myself. I found that I was best able to deal with my husband's depression when I was eating a balanced diet, getting some regular exercise, staying in contact with friends and/or family, and regularly taking some time to do something that I enjoyed. I tried to concentrate on doing these things for myself whether or not my husband was able to do them too. I hope that you will keep posting about how you are doing and that your wife will start feeling better soon. Hopefully when her depression is better she will no longer act like she hates you. Until she is better please work hard at taking good care of yourself.

      almost 5 years ago
    • lilymadeline's Avatar
      lilymadeline

      I’m so sorry, all I can say without more information is to try couples counseling. That is probably a very lame answer but that is all I can come up with, but are you the cancer patient? Are you being demanding? I certainly am very demanding of my friends but cancer patients are in survival mode and that can make us very self protective sometimes. But I doubt that she really hates you, maybe she is just angry at something? Good luck to both of you and God bless!

      almost 5 years ago

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