Hi Barb! So sorry you've joined the legions of us BC ladies--but you've found a helpful site. BC IS totally overwhelming--but you might want to start learning as much as you can about your diagnosis. People here can advise you on many aspects of treatment...there are so many women BC survivors who have done chemo, had rads or lumpectomies before us.
My sympathy on your dx; however, you're among friends here. I hope this site and the new friends you'll make give you some comfort and positive vibes to treating a horribly nasty disease.