Hi bklynmarion, welcome to WhatNext. One way to get started is to look through the journeys of other people with a similar situation. Here's how you can do this: simply click on "see more" in the "People Most Like You" box to the right. If you'd like you ca post on their walls and introduce yourself and share your situation. You can also participate in our Questions section by clicking on Questions in the purple bar above. That's a great way to get started and meet others.