HI Buster and welcome to the site! That is a common problem for a lot of us, having to deal with changing body images. There are a lot of great people here that can help with that.
I noticed you posted this as an update, if you will post this as a question in the "questions" tab at the top of any page, more people will see it, and it also gets sent to all the people who have a like diagnoses as you.
Give it a try, repost it and let the great people on WhatNext give you some feedback.
thanks for being here, let me know if I can help with anything on the site.
Greg P
3x Survivor
Team WhatNext
Community Mgr.