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    chas4aruba asked a questionProstate Cancer

    how to handle lack of libido?

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      mgm48

      In a word yes. Everything takes time to heal and the closer you are during the healing the more likely you'll overcome the libido issue. RX can help and so can support groups and counseling. I've said this many times before but it seems I never tire of telling everyone that I love my wife of nearly 45 years more today than any other time in our lives. She is my rock.

      Keep it positive and smile :)

      over 5 years ago
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      glam

      I had lost mine but it is coming back gradually.....you can wait things to get better or you can give some help by trying some techniques, such as scheduling a day and time to be with each other naked, just kissing, hugging and so forth and so on......watching some hot videos.......playing some sex games.......having fun with each other on a bed, enroll together in a dance class, etc....you may also get some psychological support if you both believe it can be helpful......everything with no pressure and no stress....it will come back and you both will enjoy intimacy together again.....God bless you both and continue blessing all of us

      over 5 years ago
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      robinhood91107

      I wish we had planned like glam did. That is the way I would have gone about developing the change. My wife is not of that mindset. With all the volunteering I do now, I told her we need to schedule a "date night". She has refused to "put herself on a calendar". She has suggested things on the spur of the moment and I put them on my schedule right away. That worked, but that is not her way. I now have a fabulous dog who is my best friend. He listens, talks back, minds my commands, loves me unconditionally, enjoys the same things as I do, and I can't think of the last time he upset me(if it has ever happened). He wakes me with a smile, is sad to see me head off for the day, loves to see me come home and all these things are mutual.

      over 5 years ago
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    chas4aruba asked a questionProstate Cancer

    anyone have penile implant??? satisfactory???

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      I considered having the implant, but considering my age (73) I decided to go with a vacuum pump. I have found this to be a good choice for me at this time. It does the job of getting an erection although I do not achieve a climax. Read up on the implant pluses and minuses to see if it is right for you. Best to you in this pc journey.
      A survivor, Ross

      almost 6 years ago
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