Finding support through this site. I have not yet been at my job for a year so I don't qualify for FMLA until July. Your feelings are normal and just know that you're not alone
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- Patient Info: Currently in active treatment (initial surgery, receiving chemo rounds/radiation), Diagnosed: about 4 years ago, Male, Age: 63
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I am going through the same thing.....my husband has just given up. It's very hard for me to sit and watch him wither away. At first I was so sad, then I became afraid and now I'm angry that he will not fight the battle with me! We have three girls, twins 8 and the baby is 6. It's very hard to put a smile on my face everyday and pretend everything is normal. Today was especially difficult, I woke up with tears in my eyes and my day didn't get much better. I have no support from anyone. I feel your pain. I had two trips for just a weekend get away planned but didn't go because I was afraid to leave him.
To all of you that share the hardships of life as you state, I understand what u r experiencing from this current reality. I am a student of life too.
The point here is to give a chance for this reality TO CHANGE.
We are dealing with UNIVERSAL LAWS such as the LAW OF ATTRACTION as everything that is happening I our lives we attracted them at one time or another: that includes health , wealth, relationships , career, successes , failures etc...the Law of Attraction is no different than the Law OF GRAVITY... IT IS A LAW and this law RESPONDS TO OUR VIBRATIONS - the Emotions are the vibrations we emit to the universe. Based on these EMOTIONS we create realities that manifest in our lives. If we have negative emotions we create more negative circumstances in our lives... If we have positive emotions more positive events are created. Our Emotions are the VIBRATIONS WE SEND TO THE UNIVERSE TO CREATE MORE OF IT. ( not to be in denial though... But to be realistic and honest in what we want - NOTon the HOW. The universe knows how. ) the universe knows how to create illness from our vibration it also knows how to create good health but we must send that vibration.
We cannot control our emotions just like that. We have to think of something or feel something or experience something... Maybe we can remember something that felt really good and our emotion goes just there.
First - you recognize the issues at hand; the reality that does not FEEL GOOD .
Second- identify what is that you WANT that will change the script of the current reality .
Third- Get into the FEELING PLACE OF WHAT YOU WANT (that is where you are now at this moment) Then,
Fourth- you expect, listen, feel and allow it to happen. Without sabotaging the experience
Allow positive en energy to flow through your being and create positive vibrations. We cannot control others nor what situations surround us at this moment but we certainly have the power to change all about our life by the vibrations we emit that are transmitted in the universe. We are very powerful beings.
PAY ATTENTION TO THE WORDS YOU SPEAK - THEY SHOW YOU WHERE YOU ARE AND THE VIBRATIONS YOU EMIT. Are YOUR WORDS Positive or Negative? your emotions are a reflection of your thoughts and YOUR WORDS are a reflection of your thoughts and your emotions.
Based on that, JUST KNOW what you are creating MORE OF.
THIS IS JUST ANOTHER PERSPECTIVE OF ADDRESSING THE ISSUES AT HAND; A CHANGE IN SCENERY, a new objective that takes our attention to another level , disconnecting from the current reality as we see it. BEST OF ALL --- NO SIDE AFFECTS ---COMPLETELY HARMLESS --- A GREAT EXERCISE INTO RISING CONSCIOUSNESS.
It is an exercise for life . Thank you for reading this long message.