I'm sorry your having to go through this. I know exactly what that's like. After being done with my 3rd cancer diagnoses. and finished my treatment, 2 months later my Dad started a fast downhill slide after his prostate cancer became agressive after 14 years, he passed away 2 months later. Then, Mom was diagnosed with an inoperable lung tumor two months later, we lost her 8 months later.
Me three times, Mom and Dad, cancer sucks.
Hope you get by as best you can, let us know if we at Team WhatNext can help with anything.