Hello and welcome to the site. If you will repost this in the questions page, everyone who browses that page will see it. The way this site is set up, only people who follow you will see a status update.
Lots of great people here with lots of help to offer. Post it there and you will get some answers. Have you contacted the American Cancer Society? The number is listed in the resources link at the top of the page.
We wish you both the best.