Sorry for the troubles tha cancer has dropped in your lap. It's one of the "side effects" we get. There are places that can provide some help for you. We have this question come up fairly often. Repost this in the questions tab at the top of the page. There everyone who browses the page will see it and be able to offer help and suggestions. As a status update only the people who follow you will see it.
give it a try and get some feedback.
Thanks for posting, we hope you get some help.