Wow, sounds like twins. My husband is also fairly young, andwe have kids. It's tough. Somehow, you adapt to the "new normal".
samsfam shared an experience
Oh No (Money): I have no idea how I am supposed to focus on getting him well, when I am worrying about how to pay the bills and how our car is going to survive the trips back and forth to treatment. I want to be able to just look at him and say, "It is going to be ok. Our family is going to make it through and come out stronger on the other side." but, honestly I don't know what we are going to do and I have no idea how to ask for financial help; everyone is struggling right now.