I think you raise some good points. You might want to ask about the "waiting" in our Questions section. You can do this by clicking on Questions in the blue bar above and then typing in your question. I am sure you will get great feedback. Good luck and keep us posted. We are here to support you.
Shellee posted an update
I just came home from surgery and my Dr. said that they found cancer spread to my lymphnodes. He said stage 3 and that sounds really bad, but he doesn't seem concerned. He is going on vacation and won't see me for a month before sending me to an oncologist. How do I wait a month? Am I overly worried? How do I hold it together for my husband, my kids and my parents?