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    Daisy with my son and her son.

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    The last picture doesn't even compare to how skinny she actually got. She was under 65 pounds when she passed.

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      biga17133

      May god hold you and your Family close and comfort you, I'm so sorry for your loss ..

      about 1 year ago
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      Your angel is with many others in heaven... thank you for sharing.

      about 1 year ago
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      Sorry you've lost your beautiful sister. My sincere condolences to you and your family. May your love and memories bring you comfort, until you meet again!

      about 1 year ago
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    Loss (Lost loved one): She's gone... She fought and suffered more than anyone I've ever known and my beautiful, courageous sister is just gone. She is leaving behind 2 young sons and huge following of people. Daisy used Facebook as a way to share her journey from diagnosis until she could not do it anymore. She had many followers, but she would of never expected the amount of people that would come together for her now. Her passing has brought people from all over our county together. People who she never met donating $500 to help with funeral costs. It's all wonderful to see, but I just want my best friend back. I have no one to call and talk to everyday anymore. I feel numb most of the time, but then something stupid will break me into tears. As much as this hurts me, I'm glad she is not suffering anymore. I love you Daisy Mae!!!

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      LiveWithCancer

      SisterFriend, your tribute to Daisy Mae brings tears to my eyes. She sounds (and looks, based on your pinboard post) like an incredible person. I know you and her kids will miss her horribly.

      about 1 year ago
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    Procedure or Surgery (Surgery): My sister had surgery about 10 days ago to put in a colostomy bag. She was rushed to the hospital two days ago riddled with infection. The doctors keep pushing Hospice on her. They have given up and don't want to deal with her anymore. Everything they've done for her has had adverse effects and they are just hurting her more.

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      biga17133

      FIND NEW DOCTORS !!!
      Sorry to hear this time to go else were for her care don't let them take away hope there is a doctor out there find them for help soon and pray a lot as I will for your sister !!!
      Even if the time comes for hospice you will know you try everything you could, God has a plan for all of us..Praying for her comfort and relief of pain,,marven

      over 1 year ago
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      Hi Marvin. I just noticed your comment on this post. Thank you for your kind words. I wish we had done things differently from the start. "If I had known then what I know now..." But hindsight is 20/20. I tried to get her to go to City of Hope (don't know if you're familiar. It's a cancer research Hospital in California) and I tried to get her to get 2nd, 3rd and 4th opinions, but no one would listen to me. I even got it all set up at City of Hope. It's hard not to feel resentments when we all could have done so much more for her.
      Funeral is tomorrow. Lots of hurt feelings and frustrations. I don't even know if I can go. We'll see.

      about 1 year ago
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    Ideas to say good bye?

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      biga17133

      Sorry so sorry to hear this may god comfort you and your family during this time..
      now sense I too am going thru this as of now being told weeks to a month also let me say god is the one who will decide the day and time and place and may even give you more its his grace !
      And my suggest would be ask her just ask her what would you like to do sis what can I do to make you smile today what is it that she like or gives her happiness what did she always like to do and take her do them things she loved to do (if able to get out and about) give her a day or days of what she loved to do as if she not Fighting this fight make her forget for just that moment and watch her smile and laugh My son and his wife and my wife and the newest baby FAITH are going to drive to Chicago Friday night and see the cubs play at Wrigley's field Sunday because that what I loved seeing the cubs play and me and my son would go its a 12 hr. ride and I know its going to hurt and im going to have a hard time but its what I loved and what's more important then doing what you love with who you love ,,Give her that moment that she has not had in while and a great big SMILE hold close and love her tight show your sister she's outsight … I will be praying for you and her......still taking a bath by myself biga17133

      over 1 year ago
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      BuckeyeShelby

      Play music she likes. Get a DVD or movie on demand that she loves and watch it with her. Let her be the guide as far as what she is able to do. Anyone you know have kittens or small puppies? If she likes animals, that could be good. Everyone needs a good kitten fix! Share foods that she likes if she's able. Read her favorite book to her. Do you have a family photo album from when you were young? Reminiscing could be good. If she's able to get up, maybe sitting in the sunshine or watching a sunset?

      over 1 year ago
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      I just want to thank everyone for your ideas. We are entering the final days I believe. She can't walk anymore. She barely eats. She's down to 69lbs now. Hospice is going to start soon, but they won't let her get her tubes changed like she's supposed to every 6 weeks so she wants to do that before they start. She still has a little spunk in her.

      over 1 year ago