Hi Sunflower,
You're right, cancer is a terrible disease and for everyone involved. We have a lot of caregivers on the network. You can search for caregivers by clicking on "people" and using the search on the lefthand side of the page. Additionally, you may want to reach out to @robcares. He is a caregiver and leads an incredible blog for caregivers, http://www.robcares.com. We are here to support you in any way we can.