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    Stage 4 indolent B cell Non Hodgkins Lymphoma in quarantine since February.

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      JaneA

      There are quite a few of us who are being ultra-cautious. I am a Stage IV rectal cancer survivor. My hubby is 12 years old than me and is borderline diabetic and uses a cane to walk. I order groceries online for pick-up to help protect us both. I've gone in for two port flushes and recent scans. I am having cataract surgeries in November. I have to be legal to drive. My eye doctor and I felt that with winter coming, there is a risk of elective surgeries being cancelled again so we deemed that November was the time to get these done. I just got back from the hospital from having my COVID test before surgery.

      You are not over-reacting. People on the outside don't understand our issues. Breathe some deep breaths and relax.

      12 months ago
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      JustForToday

      Friends and neighbors have actually told me I hurt their feelings when I chose to decline their invitations because I am being super cautious while Covid-19 is out of control. Fortunately, I remember these same people not understanding when I told them I could not have visitors due to non-existent immune system while I was getting chemo. I just try to explain as simply as I can. They chose to socialize with me again when chemo was over. I know they care about me and hope they will want to socialze with me again after Covid is under control.

      12 months ago
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      legaljen1969

      @TanjaTuna- The important part is that you take care of yourself. It would be nice if those in your life would just be supportive and understanding when you tell them you have to be extra careful, but sometimes people just don't pay attention.
      Unfortunately, I think the fact that COVID has been so politicized has really increased the insensitivity of others. It has decreased acceptance of people who need to take extra care of themselves to remain well. It has increased the eyerolls and the "oh you're just being a hypochondriac." Nope. There are so many virtual platforms through which we can communicate and share. There is so much social media. I know we are all getting a little stir crazy these days and wanting life "back to normal." I don't think any of us anticipated this would be such a long lasting thing. We all thought we would quarantine for a few weeks, "flatten the curve" and go back to life as normal.
      I did find it helpful for some of my more resistant friends and family to share articles on Facebook or other social media platforms with links to things I "found interesting." In other words "Read this people. I am not crazy." It allowed people to read and digest what I had been telling them. It made it a little more clinical and less personal when they could read about the topic generally.
      I invited people to webinars of things that had to do with COVID and cancer. Maybe that would be a way to get the message out about your CRS.
      I hope you find yourself in a more peaceful situation.

      11 months ago
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    Procedure or Surgery (Implant chemotherapy port): Decided to finally get a port... apparently this cancer thing is going be around for a while. Hopefully this makes things easier :)