the_older_one posted an update
Thank you for all the responses in this forum. My brother(I_am_scared) & I are very grateful for suggestions.
I agree that we should most importantly let my parents know so that we can handle this issue together as one. We would probably let the doctors tell my parents and proceed with chemo+radiation. Since the news is rather shocking and difficult, I am confident in due course of time and with God's grace, we will pull through this uphill journey.
That said do share with us, various difficulties/side effects/mood swings etc you have gone through during radiation & chemo so that we get an idea of how to handle such things.
If you have some tips on healthy food choices, exercises etc please share them with us too.
Most grateful to you all...