I'm so sorry to hear that cancer has hit your home twice. Have you spoken with the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society yet? I too was at a financial crossroads, and they were able to help with copays and medicine. The Lymphoma Research Foundation also has a grant program you can apply for. It has been a while since you updated, and I'm just hoping things are going okay for you and your wife. Let me know if you need any further info on these programs.. they were lifesavers for me!